Lilypie First Birthday tickers

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Monday, June 18, 2012

Father's Day

Just a quick post on hubby's first father's day yesterday. We all went out to brunch, and the babies actually behaved! I guess that was their gift :)

We took a few photos later in the day; hopefully this will become a mother's/father's day tradition.

Milo really does have different clothing, but he always seems to end up wearing this ducky outfit. It's the backup outfit I keep downstairs in case one of them has a blow-out, and well, Milo did just that. At least they match...




Earlier in the day we also went to see hubby's father, who passed away about 20 years ago. Milo is named after him (his middle name). You can see the original outfit here pre-blowout.



Later in the evening, we took the babies on a walk in their new stroller (duallie BOB - awesome!!) and went to a nearby park (I love that we have so many playgrounds/parks in walking distance). We put both the babies in one bucket swing and they loved it. So cute!



Friday, May 18, 2012

Mother's Day

I had a great first Mother's Day, not only with my babies, but also with my own mom and MIL. My husband decided to take a bunch of photos so that he could get them framed as gifts for me and the grandmas. Here are some highlights:

 With the Grandmothers


 Me and the babies

The munchkins with their favorite toy.

Seriously, they love that Elmo doll. Serena will squeal with delight whenever she sees him. I don't know if it's the big eyes or what, but Elmo has saved us from some major fits.

In other news, Serena has now joined her brother in rolling over. She doesn't roll as much as him (he's like a rolling pin and will end up all the way across the floor), but she's good enough that she'll now flip over and sleep on her tummy. So, while it worries me that they are both now tummy sleepers, I am happy to say they are sleeping alot better! Luckily we have the Snuza monitors on them so I'm not too worried about them not being on their backs.  I think Milo is very close to being able to crawl, which is terrifying! We have alot of babyproofing to do before they are mobile!

Friday, May 11, 2012

Regression

So, I thought we were really lucky for awhile. We'd feed the babies at 9pm, but them to bed, and they would mostly sleep til about 8am the next morning, and only cry out once or twice for re-pacifying. We decided to move them into their nursery, and even started the process of un-swaddling them. Well, I'm not sure if that was too much change at once, or they've started teething, or it is just natural regression, but for the past couple of weeks we have been up every 30 minutes to an hour with a crying baby.  Luckily they are still easy to soothe back to sleep, but then they cry out again in another 30 minutes or so. Milo has learned how to roll so he is always in a different position when we find him, and sometimes cries out when he wakes up on his tummy. We moved them into separate cribs because he was rolling into his sister's territory.

We've started swaddling Serena again and she is sleeping better. Milo is doing a little better too so maybe (hopefully) it was just a phase. Mommy and Daddy were VERY cranky for a few days and it's hard not to take it out on each other when you're woken up throughout the night!  It is a really good thing that they are cute...




Since my last post we also took a roadtrip to my hometown with the babies, and they did really well. We're taking them to the Outer Banks in a couple of weeks and I just hope they do as well for that trip.

Serena also had her first laser treatment in late April. She did really well, didn't cry at all! You can't really tell in these photos, but her hemangioma is definitely starting to lighten up. She has another laser treatment in a couple of weeks.




Lately they always hold hands whenever they're next to each other. I tried to get a video of it:




Next up - that whole feeding thing, and beach trip!

Friday, April 20, 2012

Playing dress-up

Even though we don't really celebrate Easter or Passover, I wasn't about to miss an opportunity to dress the kiddos up! I found the most adorable dress (at Target!) and we ended up going over to DH's mother's house so her friends could all see the babies. Perfect opportunity to doll them up :)

This was the face Serena made as I was putting this ridiculous get-up on her.

It's like she's saying "What are you doing to me, Mommy?"

But it was worth it, she looked adorable :)


With her proud grandma (aka Gma)

And here they are together:

Milo's not so sure about all of this, but Serena obviously loves the attention. Good thing, since I plan to dress her up as much as I can before she starts to fight it!

In other news, the babies are 4 months old today. They had their 4 month check-up and vaccines this AM.  Milo weighs 13.3 lbs and Serena is not far behind at 12lbs. They are still tiny (10th percentile for weight), but they are growing and that's what matters.  Pedi said we can introduce baby food/cereal in the next month or so. Scary! Any suggestions on what their first food should be?

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Photos Galore

I finally decided to dump all the pictures I'd been taking on my phone to my computer. I didn't realize how many I'd taken...so here are some highlights:


Serena dolled up for a lunch outing. You can tell this is an older picture because her hemangioma is still ulcerated. But I just love this dress and bow :)


My little man looking so grown up in his baseball cap!


Playing "airplane" in their bouncy seats.


Wearing their Thing 1 and Thing 2 outfits before they outgrow them!




I also have a TON of pictures from this past weekend when the babies were all dressed up to go to their grandma's house for the first time. I'll post those soon :)

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Hemangiomas

Some of you may have seen pictures of my daughter and wondered what was on her face. It is called a hemangioma and I am happy to say hers is harmless.

When the twins were first born, they seemed absolutely perfect which was such a relief. Over the next few days, we noticed a light pink mark on Serena's cheek. We thought maybe she was just bruised during delivery. The pediatrician didn't even notice it at her first appointment. Over the next couple of weeks, it started to grow larger and darker. When we took her in for her 2 week appt, the doctor said it looked like a port wine stain, which is basically just a flat red birthmark that usually fades away. It was still small, so we weren't terribly concerned, but she did refer us to a pediatric dermatologist.  By 4 weeks, it had become very dark red, puffy, and large. We then first heard the term "hemangioma."

A hemangioma is a buildup of blood vessels underneath the skin. It's considered a benign tumor and can be superficial or underneath the skin. They grow in size and get darker for about the first year then they'll slowly start to shrink and sometimes go away completely within a few years.  Treatments include laser therapy to help reduce the red pigment, corticosteroids and beta blockers to make them stop growing, and finally surgical removal of the hemangioma. Of course, these all come with their own side effects and warnings since such a young child is involved. I've read that around 10% of caucasian babies get them with females being 3x more likely to get them than males, and multiples also more likely to have them. Of course, most hemangiomas are smaller than Serena's and usually not in such a prominent area.  Hers is a pretty severe case, but we are thankful it is not in an area where it could be dangerous like near her eye, nose, or even internally.  (**Thanks Alycia for letting me borrow some of your language here!!)

Serena's dermatologist decided to start her on propanolol, a beta blocker that has had great success in shrinking hemangiomas. Since it is primarily a heart medication, she had to have an echocardiogram before she was able to start. She began taking propanolol when she was 5 weeks old. We were really hopeful and looked every day for signs of progress, but unfortunately we didn't see any changes. Since her H is still in growth phase, it is likely that the medication is stopping it from growing, but not helping it go away. At this point I started doing my own research, and discovered a website dedicated to these types of birthmarks (www.birthmark.org). From that site I reached out to a vascular birthmark specialist, Dr. Gregory Levitin, who is based in NYC.  He's actually from Greensboro, NC originally, which is about 45 minutes from where I grew up, so I liked him right away :)  He also has twins, one of whom had a hemangioma. This is what spurred him to go into this field. After sending him a photo and talking to him on the phone, we decided to take Serena up to see him in person. You can read about that trip in my blog post below.  Bottom line is that he thinks that she is a great candidate for surgery, and the scarring would be minimal. It's hard to accept that your child is going to have any facial scars, but it's definitely better than what she is dealing with now, so we are hopeful. We are going to do a couple of laser treatments first with our dermatologist here in DC, and then when she is a few months older, we will take her back to NYC for surgery. Til then, we continue the propanolol and hope that it doesn't grow any more!

I have to say, I am somewhat self conscious when we take the babies out in public. I actually don't even notice the birthmark anymore when I look at her, but when I see others notice it I can see the look in their eyes thinking what is wrong with that baby? I actually prefer when people ask about it, so that I can clarify that it's harmless and she isn't in pain from it. It's tough seeing the pity in people's eyes, I want to make a sign saying that she is just fine, don't worry! 

Her brother Milo has his own little issue (I'll write about that another time), and may soon have to wear a helmet to correct it. As if we don't get enough attention already being twins and with Serena's birthmark, we'll really get stares then :P

I just want to emphasize how absolutely lucky we know we are that our children are overall healthy and that their issues are not life-threatening. They may cause us to have a few more doctor appointments, but I know it could be much worse and I am so happy to have these two little monsters, even when they are screaming their heads off at 3am!

Now, of course I couldn't have a blog post without photos...


Serena's hemangioma progression:

5 days old

5 weeks old - started propanolol
  

2 months old - ulcerated area at its worst



3 months - ulcerated area healed. On propanolol for 9 weeks.



Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Three Months

The kiddos turned 3 months old yesterday. Which somehow equals 13 weeks, so really I think they were 3 months last week, but going by the date it was yesterday. Anyway...I tried really hard to get a good photo of them, but they kept squirming all over and all the pics were blurry. I'm going to try again this weekend.  In the meantime, here are a few cute shots that a friend took of them a month ago. Of course, they are much bigger than this now...





They also spend alot more time smiling. It really seems to be one extreme or the other - cooing and smiling or screaming bloody murder. And can turn from one to the other on a dime.

For you moms out there, if anyone knows of a good way to clean babies' necks, let me know. Serena drools and spits up alot, and her neck smells like moldy cottage cheese. When I try to scrub it, she of course screams like I am torturing her, and even in the bath she keeps her chin locked down so that I can't get in there. She obviously wants to be known as the stinky baby.

I am on a mission this weekend to get a good photo of the two of them together!